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The parents love homeschooling their kids, saying this way, they get to spend their lives with their boys rather than just a couple hours at the end of the day.

The parents love homeschooling their kids, saying this way, they get to spend their lives with their boys rather than just a couple hours at the end of the day.

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*this story first appeared on The Wayward Home

Nathan Swartz and his family of five have been traveling full-time for eight years now. They started by living in a van, then moved to an airstream, and are now back in a van again.

He hopes to inspire others to cut the chains and go travel, and has a wonderful website full of resources called Wanderly. I caught up with Nathan to ask him more questions about van life, and what it's like living in a van full-time with three kids!

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1. First off, how does a family of five fit inside a van?

Well, first of all, we cheat! We used to all be in an Airstream travel trailer, and our oldest son, Tristan, was burgeoning into a young man doing the teenage thing ...and since we were almost always somewhere warm, he decided that he'd rather sleep in a tent than be woken up at 6am by his younger brothers every morning. After that happened, we realized we could fit the four of us that weren't him into our VW Bus. We'd had it since 2009 and it was our first home on the road as a family, where our 6-year-old Winter was conceived and grew up, too, but after we had Wylder, our youngest (he's currently 5), my wife Renée's mom came on board and was traveling with us too. Anyway, long story short, when she decided to move back to Michigan, Tristan was in a tent and we didn't want to lug around a big, always breaking Airstream around, it just made sense to get back into the Volkswagen.

2. What are the benefits of raising kids on the road?

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Personally, I enjoy moving around a lot and so does my wife. Our youngest two were born into this life, so it's more or less all they know and they enjoy it. The benefits are getting to see the world, dodging bad weather, and being able to visit friends scattered all over the country. As their teachers, we also get to spend our entire lives with our boys instead of sending them off to school and only getting a couple of hours at the end of the day. Sometimes it's a lot to handle, though, I certainly will admit. The biggest thing I hope they get out of this all is seeing a bunch of different types of living situations, from people living incredibly simply in Mexico to various mixes of cultures in the United States, it just gives them the chance to see that no one particular way of life, skin color or personality dominates the entire world. On the other hand, as our oldest has moved out of his little kid days he has shown us that it's important for kids to have a location they can call home, where they can make friends, get a job, go to things like dances...it's been tough for us all to figure out how we can make it work for everyone, but essentially we have decided to more or less stay in one place for the warmer months, a place he can call home, and then travel for the winter. We're still figuring it all out though.

3) What advice would you give parents considering living in a van full-time with kids?

Well, if you haven't sent your kids to school yet, don't do it! That is the biggest challenge, in our experience, once kids get a feel for having loads of friends around, they tend to want that experience to continue. Maybe that's a good thing and maybe it's a bad thing. We've got a lot of opinions on it, but aren't here to judge anyone else's lifestyle and hope others respect that same way of looking at our life, as well. Other than that, you've got to be willing to be crawled all over when you're all stuck inside in the rain, and your kids should be the types who want to spend most of their time outdoors, as it gets quite claustrophobic otherwise. It's really less about "living" in the van and more about sleeping there, and making the commitment to otherwise live outside.

4) How should someone choose a van or an RV to live in?

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It's totally going to be up to the family in question. If you like watching TV and only going to the grocery store once a week or so and having your own bathroom and shower, then you're probably going to be happier in an RV. Pushing through living in a van can be tough, even once in awhile you want to just kick back on a couch and take it easy, or when the whole family gets sick and projectile vomits all over, those aren't exactly the best times to be living out of a van. On the other hand, if you are the type of family who loves hiking, riding bikes, climbing trees, and sitting in camping chairs, then it's a lot easier to maintain a single van and it's way easier to drive, find the best places to camp, and never worry about being too big, clearance, or issues that come along with an RV. I don't think the van or RV makes the adventure, they're just tools that allow people like us to get out and explore, in a more meaningful way than most people can afford when it's a vacation or you're already paying a mortgage or rent and then want to travel, too. In our scenario, we often pay nothing for rent (national forests) or around $600 / month when we're paying for state parks or the occasional RV park. So our money can go much further as far as eating at restaurants, going to museums and parks and other things that cost money.

5) What are the biggest challenges and joys of living in a van with your family?

In our VW, the biggest challenge was just keeping the thing running. Since we all enjoy this lifestyle, it's not really a thing where we're like, "Man, I wish we had a house" or whatever. The biggest challenge all around, no matter what vehicle or setup we've had, has been watching our oldest get older and want something different than the rest of us. It's important for us to make this a life that everyone can enjoy, and that was a hard thing to picture over the years. The biggest joy has been watching all of my kids learn to walk, teaching them all how to read, ride a bike, seeing them swim for the first time. I don't miss many, if any, moments because I'm not off at the office or they're not off at a daycare. For us, that's very important, and it's been a pleasure even as the reality of being constantly on parents rarely in the vicinity of a babysitter has been difficult as well.

6) Do you think living in a van has become more socially acceptable?

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I suppose. It seems like thousands and thousands of people are doing it. Tristan and I first hit the road in 2008, and we didn't meet many other full-time RVers back then, at least not anyone who wasn't a retiree. Instagram shows how much that's changed. America boasts a lot about freedom, and nothing is more freeing than living in a vehicle you can pack up and take to the next beautiful spot at any moment's notice. There will always be people who look down on it, but no matter what your life choice, someone is going to be looking down their nose at you, so why not do what you want and drown out the noise?

Kristin Hanes is a journalist and writer who lives on a sailboat in the San Francisco Bay. You can follow her on Twitter @KristinHanes. This story first appeared on The Wayward Home.

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